The nursing home has requested a cash donation to be pooled and spread out amongst the staff as a holiday gift. She’s only been there about six months and I don’t know how much is appropriate. Etiquette sites say to give a gift, not cash so that doesn’t help.
Answer by vmoore708
I would wonder what their policy says on that. I would hope that would be a no no. I can see you buying a gift for them if you want but to be asked for cash? OMG that is rude rude rude. I would call the director and ask about that.